Never Ending Relationships

... One person asked me if she should "stay friends" with someone after the relationship was over ... and I couldn't help but wonder how she could split up the two... as my experiences of relationships have taught me how, although the circumstances in our relationships change, the reality of us having a relationship with another person does not ...
For we may no longer be within the same frame of that picture together, but the "content" of it is what always lingers and remain..

I can personally attest to my relationships living and continuing to live in some of the most intimate parts of my thoughts, memories, heart and sometimes other relationships...long after I've parted ways with people...

So it becomes very important to me to internally and eternally stay friends...because I know relationships never really ends...




Comments

breathandrock said…
Hi there Chana..

agreeing on this one...relationships are eternal..we should not burn bridges, even those small talks with a not-so-close friend...all these moments define what we have become :)
March 13, 2010 at 12:59 PM
Anonymous said…
Sounds good. I have been in relationships that where no more than a freindship between two people,yet between the two people,the two words got confused, and ive lost good freinds.Meaning freindships are relationships.. vice versa,..thats just my thought,....keep up the good work.
March 14, 2010 at 4:36 PM
Chana said…
Thank you both for taking the time to comment. I wish there was a way for us to dialogue more on this.


Any thoughts? Hit me.

-Chana
March 15, 2010 at 9:53 AM
Chana said…
To Ron:
I got your last comment on this piece but tried to moderate it due to it's personal content.

Needless to say, I clicked the wrong command and deleted it... Please forgive me.

What is another way for us to keep in touch? Because this is not the place for it.

thanks.
-Chana
March 16, 2010 at 4:33 PM
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